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Being Approachable



A lot of times, people in the singles/dating world get frustrated with a number of common issues and challenges. One of the more common frustrations involves people being unhappy that others do not approach them or keep wanting to interact after a brief exchange. If you are noticing that you are rarely approached or your conversations with others are usually brief, tense, or awkward, there are probably reasons for this. Are you not rich, good looking, or popular enough? I don’t know. Maybe, maybe not. But I do know this: people who are rarely approached by others usually give off often inadvertent messages that they are not open to being approached. This “unapproachable” message comes in body language, facial expression, certain statements, and other signs and signals.


How Are You Coming Across as Unapproachable?


From the book First Impressions: What You Don’t Know About How Others See You by White and Demarais (2007), some common signs to others are reviewed that send the message you are not approachable and/or are otherwise disinterested.